How To Make One's Love Strong!

Many have succeeded, and many have failed, and there's also many that is about to succeed or fail in one matter alone : LOVE.

Love... What makes a couple so strong is because there is an understanding bond.
To me, (still a single) voicing out for the people, giving my opinions on how love should be assessed by a couple.




1. Try to understand the person deeply in terms of mentally, physically and background. But try to understand her/him SLOWLY. Repeat that word with me, SLOWLY! I've been doing some research of my own. Once you've successfully understand everything (including secrets) of your partner in love, you will normally have the tendency to... well... dislike her for her weakness. Plus, time is of the essence. This then brings a meaning into love relationships as time gives you more understanding of your partner, rather than hearing it from her. Spend more time with her and you'll eventually see, his/her past have changed her future by being a good one in the present.


2. Be an understanding and independent individual, but always have faith in your partner as well. Being a single for a long time, I've seen break-ups a lot during my days (which is now). No offense here but, normally most of the female I've seen put extremely high faith in their boyfriends, leaving them to do everything for the females. 'Yes, I know. You girls would hate me deeply now. But it's a fact and you can't deny it!' Anyway, as I proceed, females tend to drag their boyfriend out as a driver, shopping bag carrier, waiter, and payer. Yes, yes, it's normal for a guy to do so for their girlfriends (this is a good thing of being a boyfriend), but you girls out there, sometimes you should think for the males. Try to be their shoes.
At least try to offer them some help in carrying the goods. Or hold your handbags/items closely to you and tell your boyfriend that he doesn't need to help you to carry it in a kind way or do it like one of my friends did : 'This is my handbag. Lots of secrets inside that you cannot see.'


3. Spoil your partner and make sure it's done BOTH sides of the relationship. If one spoil the other, but the other like just don't respond to it, well then, who's spoiling who then? Haha... You get my drift. Haha...


4. Communication is the utmost important in everything! At least tell your partner your location, your actions at the current moment. Mostly, the girlfriends want to know where their boyfriends are as they are worry for you. But, girls, there are always a limit. Don't always control your boyfriend, being bossy over him. And guys, there are always times you must care for your girlfriends' feelings. Try to sit down, chat with her of your daily status, tell her how you feel, inform her of your location without being asked to. This makes one understand the other better.











AS in the previous episode, Dirge has mentioned 4 things that binds a love stronger. And now, he shall continue with a little bit more on it...


5. Be as romantic as possible (particularly for guys). Females always fantasied of how their love life would proceed. So, try to make her happy, adored by you. Be super romantic to her, but at CERTAIN occasions. Don't be romantic to her at bad times; trust me, you (guys) would screw it big time and girls are always people that remembers stuffs clearly; including date, time, place of the event occurred. So, be romantic as possible but romantic at right times.


6. This is very important to both sides of the relationship. The First of Everything is the most important thing/event that you'll or had faced. The first time you held your partner's hands, the first time you kiss your partner, the first time you hug your partner and etc etc. That first determines the future of everything in that person. There are situations where I've seen my friends saying that after holding hands with her second boyfriend after months of break-up, he/she will miss her first boyfriend. This is why most couples break-up and reunite again.
So, when you say 'You love Him/Her', you better MEANT IT! And do not, i repeat, DO NOT SCREW UP THE FIRST! Thank you...


7. Yes, being jealous over your boyfriend/girlfriend when they are with some girls/guys is typical normal for everyone. But make sure your jealousy don't get into your head. Put some faith in your guy/girl. If you know that your partner loves you and only you, have faith and put that jealousy aside.



BE back with more (or maybe none. Currently writer's block. Haha.)
Maybe this is the end, or not. So, keep it posted!

Time is of The Essence, and so it's Ayam Brand?

Yes, weird huh... People have been saying my blog is dead for a year, revived back yesterday! Hallelujah! God bless my blog, and everyone of us ALL!

anyway, people oh people, I'm terribly bored and maybe flying off to further studies... Poor thing for me to leave everyone here in M'sia...

So I made a decision.

IN the next 10 years,
A college class reunion. Date and place : Unknown...
A secondary school reunion. Date and place : Unknown...
A primary school reunion. Date and place : Unknown...
Must be held!
Compulsory to all.

Makes me Wonder

Everything in the world just seems so perfect,
But then when you engage yourself in it,
It feels as though you're in a tight-air room,
Can't able to breathe, can't able to move,
Just stiff there, squeezing through everything in your path,
And yet the world is so big,
I do wonder why it is so.

The moment I stood among the crowd of people,
I just stood there stiff, as though the air is strangling,
It's as though time freeze, but yet the people are still moving,
What's wrong with me, I do wonder?

As Good As I Once Was

She said, "I've seen you in here before."
I said, "I've been here a time or two."
She said, "Hello, my
Name is Bobby Jo
Meet my twin sister Betty Lou
And we're both feeling kinda wild tonight
And you're the only cowboy in this place
And if you're up for a rodeo
We'll put a big Texas smile on
Your face"
I said, "Girls,"

I ain't as good as I once was
I got a few years on me now
But there was a time back in my prime

When I could really lay it down
And if you need some love tonight
Then I might have just enough
I ain't as good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was

I still hang out with my best friend Dave
Ive known him since we were kids at school
Last night he
Had a few shots
Got in a tight spot hustling a game of pool
With a couple of redneck boys
One great
Big bad biker man
I heard David yell across the room
"Hey buddy, how 'bout a helping hand."
I said, "Dave,"

I ain't as good as I once was
My how the years have flown
But there was a time back in my prime

When I could really hold my own
But if you wanna fight tonight
Guess those boys don't look all that
Tough
I ain't as good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was

I used to be hell on wheels
Back when I was younger man
Now my body says, "You can't do this boy"

But my pride says, "Oh, yes you can

I ain't as good as I once was
That's just the cold hard truth
I still throw a few back, talk a little smack
When I'm feeling bullet proof
So don't double dog dare me now
'Cause I'd have to call your bluff

I ain't as good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was
Maybe not be good as I once was
But I'm as good once as I ever was

Love Me Tender

Love me tender,
Love me sweet,
Never let me go.
You have made my life complete,
And I love you so.

Love me tender,
Love me true,
All my dreams fulfilled.
For my darling I love you,
And I always will.

Love me tender,
Love me long,
Take me to your heart.
For its there that I belong,
And well never part.

Love me tender,
Love me dear,
Tell me you are mine.
Ill be yours through all the years,
Till the end of time.

When at last my dreams come true
Darling this I know
Happiness will follow you
Everywhere you go.




Copyrighted...

2009 is here...

Finally, another year has gone pass and I truly thanked God for making me alive till today to see the wonders that the World could afford to show.
Obama as President is just one of the world's best moments. Haha. some more wat other things... Yes, AS is gone, and A2 is here.. Haih.. 6 more months of torture.....
Haha.... It's truly a new year...
NO MORE EMO!!!

So give your support for making me NO MORE EMO!

Painful... Tearful... Words....

Today shall be the day, that person spoke of me,
the words that shall not be out from thy lips,
but it did, indeed it did.
I shall suffer for this day has yet to come again.