Love is Hard to Maintain? Really?

This is of the following 'How To Make One's Love Strong!'
sorry for the long wait. I need fresh ideas coming in and studies is just ain't helping me to do so. So, let's continue. There might be some repeats, so forgive me of so.


8. Please do Know and Respect your boundaries of being boyfriends/girlfriends. Yes, and I meant it so. There's some girls tend to be flirting to the guys, and these also occurs exactly for the guys as well. In their term, they call it communicating. In everyone's term beside their own, it is flirting carefree. Understand your limits as a boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't mean that you'll have to change or start to avoid people, it's just that reduce the wanting attention from others. 'Be popular, be famous, I don't care, as long you still have feelings for me and don't act as though you're a playboy/playgirl, I'm happy.'




9. Remember, Never be a Control Freak. Never, and I repeat, NEVER limit your couple in doing something. Limiting people is a biggie NO-NO. People hate it when you want them to avoid or less doing it. They'll mostly probably going to say 'I want to do it. You don't let me? Cannot?' So, try making some hints to your couple so they understand when they're over their limits.




10. this is for most of the guys out there. Don't be a spend thrift onto your couple. Yes, buy her gifts, buy her clothes, foods, and entertainment and whatsoever. But, if I remember, when come to spoiling a girl/guy, there is also limits to that. over-spoiling them is just equal to you locking her away in your room, enprisoning her from enjoying herself with her friends and her studies. For now, all main priority must be focus towards studies. when you over spoil someone, they tend to get lazy and want you to do everything for them. Yes, it's a guy's thing to do practically everything for their loved ones, but in this case, I'm sure you want them to be independent on their own when you're away or etc etc.




11. And oh ya, maintain privacy between yourself and yourself alone. Yes, sharing is good and tell everything to your couple is good, but also like what this whole fraeking post have been talking about. Limit what you say. What you might say seems harmless to people, but to your loved one, it's like throwing a brick just to kill an ant. Have your own private life, but also then, don't be too private-y. People get suspicious though.



so this is all for now. See ya then. Share some ideas to me ya.